I will admit, I'm one of those people who is notorious for packing WAY too much. I often think, wow, I did pretty good this time…that is until I attempt to lift the suitcase and barely get it off the floor! Then I have to shield my glances at Hubby as he picks it up to carry it to the car, giving me questionable glances. I know what he's thinking: did you really need to pack all those shoes? YES I DID! Because you know if I didn't, I would end up needing them!!!
I've been thinking about these all too familiar scenarios as packing for our trip quickly approaches. I don't want to take too much. After all, hubby and I are packing together so I'll have limited space. But, I also don't want to take too little. I've never been to Mexico before…what will I want? What will I need? Considering that our vacation destination will be on average about 30 degrees warmer than it is here, I won't have to pack as much…and that's a good thing. Now, how do I narrow it down…
This is how I became a successful packer for our trip:
1) Plan ahead. Know where you are going and what to expect. Will you need warm clothes and layers (sweaters, jeans, boots…) for cooler weather or will you need lighter clothes (swimsuit, shorts, sandals…) for warmer weather? Figure out your climate and then begin weeding choosing which clothes are possibilities.
2) Stick to the staples. Your instinct may tell you that you need your 4 favorite pairs of jeans, you 3 best sweaters, your 20 cutest tops, and your 8 most fabulous shoes but let's be real…not only do you not need all this, you don't have room for all this. Take only what's necessary. Here's an example of my clothing list:
- 2 swimsuits
- 1 cover-up
- 3 sun dresses
- 1 pair of slacks
- 2 nice tops
- 3 t-shirts
- 2 pairs of shorts
- 1 pair of capris
- Heals/sandals in both black and brown
Not bad! Simple, minimal, room for hubby's clothes!

My packing list...I MUST have this!
The front of my cute notebook. Fits in the purse!
3) Take accessories. Belts, jewelry, scarves, headbands, etc. They're small and easy to pack around (and can spice up your lack of ensembles in #2).
4) Plan for the inevitable (headache, allergies, stomach issues, sunburn…). Over pack here. No exceptions.
5) Pack entertainment! Throw in those books and magazines you've been meaning to read. Grab some cards for those low-key moments. Don't forget the camera!
6) Do not forget the most essential items – your travel documents, passports, identification, and essential credit cards. And make copies of all of these. Be prepared – you never know if you'll need it.
7) Ask friends for advice! It's amazing the things you often forget you need and your friend remembers!
I did find a couple of packing lists on the web. The first is from The Nest and it's fairly simple and generic (can be used for any type of trip). The second is from The Knot and lends itself more to a honeymoon…but since this (in a way) is the honeymoon for hubby and I, it's bound to be helpful!
Lesson of this post: packing can be stressful, it can be confusing, and it can be tiring. But stick to the basics and you're bound to be set to jet!